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Paul Ruark is Playing on the 4th of July

July 2nd, 2012

Maybe it’s the state of the economy, maybe it’s the tumultuous political goings on, or maybe I’m just getting older, but I’m having a hard time maintaining my sense of enthusiasm and patriotism this Independence day.  But regardless of my personal misgivings, our community is preparing to go ahead with area celebrations.  There are all the usual fourth, of July celebrations this year, Lindsey Field, Father Heart Ministries between Lindale and Van, the list is a long and familiar one. I’m not going to spend this article writing about all of them again this year. Instead I thought I’d play the publicist and help put the word out about an area musician I know, who’s performing in Edom over the fourth.

For those like me, who find themselves a bit disillusioned this year, an evening listening to local artist Paul Ruark may be just the encouragement needed to remind us of the reason we celebrate our national birthday. The show will be held just outside the dance hall in Edom, just past The Shed Café. (If my readers are unfamiliar with The Shed I invite them to read the proceeding article at http://www.tylertxdirectory.com/9529/the-shed-cafe-in-edom/ ). Paul’s set starts about six p.m. and goes until around ten. For those who have other plans for the fourth, but would like to attend a show, he’ll be playing at the Purple Pig, where he is a regular, on Friday night, starting and ending around the same times. For more info, search for “Rusty” Paul Ruark on Facebook, and hit “Like.”

A Day in the Park for Autism Awareness

March 28th, 2011

I rarely get directly involved in too many community causes outside those promoted by my local church. It’s not that I lack core values; it’s just that I’m not that good a person! No honestly, I find somber events dealing with life and illness outside the realm of religion to be kind of hollow, especially given the fact that I feel essentially powerless to make any quantifiable difference. Ritual apart from faith has always struck me as rather empty. I whole heartily commend those who work tirelessly on behalf of others, and I try to contribute in at least some small way to charity, but I seldom participate in the surrounding pomp and circumstance. Well there’s an event happening in Tyler next week that even I can support.

The Assist Autism Foundation will be holding a community day in the park event, in order to raise awareness concerning the disease. The day’s events will include bouncy houses, face painting, children’s yoga, (whatever that is), great music, and whole litany of other activities. Participation in most events is free; although I’m sure there will be opportunities to give for those who are so inclined. There are a number of local businesses and organizations sponsoring the event which will run from ten am to two pm. It’s an up- beat day of community involvement that promises to be fun for the kids in particular, and goes to supporting a great cause. Businesses and organizations who are interested in taking a more direct and active part can call 903-509-4430.

On a not completely related note, parents or family members of Autistic children who would like to connect with other families in similar circumstances, or simply get some general and anonymous advice are invited to visit the following web page: http://www.findingjackson.com “Finding Jackson” is a great resource, and will hopefully be an encouragement to many families struggling with Autism.

MOPS International

February 9th, 2011

  Mothers of Pre-Schoolers (MOPS) is a great place for moms to come and be encouraged by other moms. Many different churches around East Texas have the MOPS groups meet in their facility. Many times being a mom is so stressful and you just want someone that understands how much time and energy you invest in your family. Sometimes you began to feel discouraged and frustrated. You are not the only person that feels that way. At MOPS moms are separated into smaller groups or tables with a table leader and a table mom. The table leader keeps you informed about each meeting and what the next thing that is going on with the group. She also plans mom’s night outs or play dates with your groups children. The table mom is the mentor of the table. She has “been there and done that”, in other words she has raised her children and knows the struggles of being mom. It is great to get advice and encouragement from someone who has lived through it all.

MOPS started with just a few women in 1973. They simply got together and talked while they had someone come and watch their children. They would eat; do a craft, and a devotional. Soon they started to spread this idea to churches. The MOPS idea spread like a wild fire as churches and women saw a need for a group like this. By 1988 MOPS meeting started taking place outside of the United States boarder and MOPS became MOPS International.

MOPS meetings are at different times depending on the location, and most groups meet twice a month. The MOPS groups that I have attended have all met during the week and in the morning. Every meeting has different tables bring breakfast for the meeting. This is a fun way to start the meeting, eating together and talking to friends. Some groups even have fun door prizes. At the MOPS groups they have speakers come in that give advice to moms and what to do in situations concerning, punishing your children, playing with your children, setting limits, and giving choices. Every couple weeks the group does a fun craft together. Craft days are pretty fun it is just a time you can laugh and talk together with all the other women. One of the greatest things about MOPS is that they have MOPPETS. MOPPETS is a group of wonderful women that volunteers to watch these moms little children while the moms are in the meeting. To join MOPS there is about a fifty dollar fee, but there are scholarships for moms if needed.

Come to MOPS and be encouraged by other moms and by great speakers. Have fun and make new friends here. There all churches all over East Texas that has opened their doors to MOPS groups. There is also a group called Teen MOPS, for teen moms facing similar situations and struggles. To find a MOPS near you or a MOPS that meets at a time convenient to your schedule you can search at www.mops.org. I find myself looking forward to these meetings, I love having time to have an adult conversation with people who understand me, and many of these with kids the same age going through the same things. If you feel like there is a need of a MOPS or a Teen MOPS group at your church, there is all the information you need to start a group on the MOPS website.

Tyler, Texas Weight Loss: Secret equals self sabotage

July 22nd, 2010

On the one hand, keeping your weight loss goals to yourself only makes sense.  After all, if you give up after a few days there’s no one there to criticize you or judge you.  If you do succeed, then you’ll have the upper hand to surprise those who have not seen you in a while, which is a great ego boost.  Mostly, there won’t be the constant, nagging, and annoying questions of what type of plan you are on, how things are going, and how many pounds you’ve managed to get rid of.

On the other hand, keep your weight loss a secret could be a recipe for disaster.  The very reasons for keeping quiet are the same reasons your chances for success are quite low.  There is no accountability and no motivation to push through beyond your own often finicky thoughts.  It is very easy to rationalize eating that doughnut to yourself if no one is there to discourage you and help keep you on the path to success.

While it is difficult to tell your Tyler, Texas friends and family of your intentions knowing there is a possibility of not living up to your goals, having a source of accountability can do wonders to keep your motivation high in those times where you are ready to give up.  It also helps to have a strong support system for encouragement and help. If you are serious about losing weight, let it be known.

Sky Dive in East Texas

June 25th, 2010

​One great thing about this job, (writing for the Tyler TX Directory), is that I’m finding all sorts of area events, activities and institutions that I would love to visit!

One bad thing about this job is that I’m finding all sorts of area events, activities and institutions that I would love to visit, but don’t have the time or money to do so.

Ok so I admit some of the things I write about I’ve experienced first-hand (quite a few actually), and some I’ve yet to experience. One of the later is skydiving.

Now there are a whole series of reasons why I’ve never participated in this activity, just one of which is: I’d have no idea where to go to take in a day of jumping out of airplanes.

As it turns out it seems I have one less excuse since discovering Sky Dive East Texas (located at the Gladewater Municipal Airport on Hwy 271 South).

They have been helping people jump out of perfectly functional airplanes for over thirteen years. And they can claim one hundred fifteen thousand jumps to their credit.

​It should be understood that this isn’t the kind of thing patrons can do on a whim. In fact it requires at least a twenty four hour reservation.

Try going to sleep the night before that event! Also a non-refundable fifty dollar deposit is required. The reasoning behind this precaution seems perfectly self evident to me!

The whole cost of the excursion is not terribly cheap, but on considering, it may not be as expensive as one would expect either. There are a series of prices depending on how the visitor would like to record the experience.

The base price is just under two hundred thirty dollars. All beginners jump tandem, but after progressing through a series of classes and jumps customers can actually learn to experience the sport solo.

​I can certainly recognize the appeal of this hobby. I have often said that given the opportunity I like to give it a try, although I may require some… encouragement at the airplane door.

Fortunately for me I’m not nearly out of excuses for avoiding this brush with my own mortality. The fact that I’m, er… big boned precludes me from making a day of it. In my own defense, I’m not morbidly obese or anything, but it seems that the weight limit for men is two hundred fifteen pounds.

Admittedly, I’m a bit over that. The limit for women is around one hundred eighty. According to the website those limits are flexible but it requires an additional charge of three dollars a pound for every pound over the weight limit.

Note to self: try dropping a few before doing a follow up on this article. All self deprecation aside; for those interested in an adrenaline rush and a memory never to be forgotten check out the website at www.skydiveeasttexas.com.

I should also note that for those interested in a private pilot’s license, East Texas Eagle Flight Training is also located at Gladewater Municipal Airport.

The flight school offers an instructional course that will walk the perspective pilot through the process of attaining his or her private pilot’s license. To look into their services visit the website at http://learntoflyeasttexas.com.